WORK!  

At one point in time I had a job for a major beverage company, there came a time when I was asked to train new employees. The job was a very strenuous  and it was not for the weak at heart. A route consists of 350 to 700 cases of beverages and at least 15 delivery stops. The company had the same expectations of a new employee as they did for a 10 veteran. There was any real training program; the new guy would just jump in a truck with a driver and just go fpr it. Many men would just up and quite. For a while, it seemed like a revolving door as fast as they were hired they would quit.

The main idea of training a new employee from a personal view was to give them the knowledge of accomplishing the job successfully in simple language. This allowed the new driver to acclimate to the new environment and get use to the route. From there they would gradually build their own manual customized for their route. After so many years of training, within 15 minutes of talking with the new driver. I could make a decision if they were going to make it or not. Just simply based my conclusion on the driver’s attitude towards work.

Ladies and Gentleman, if on your first or second day on the job and you are found complaining already about a new job. You start to form negative opinions about everything. It is safe to conclude that no matter where you are, complaining will be your  M.O. (mode of operation).

Definition: Exertion of strength or faculties; physical or intellectual effort directed to an end; industrial activity; toil; employment sometimes, specifically, physically labor. 

Work is an attitude or state of the mind. When there is a job to do, the thought towards that activity equates in the quality of the results. Even If you are now in a vocation, other than the one you desire. The attitude you have now towards your present vocation will reflect your most desirable vocation. You must have a cheerful attitude now! Do not wait until later, start now.

Work is force x distance.

Force is your efforts towards whatever goal you have set. The physical or mental effort that you excerpt toward what you desire is force. Force is putting your thoughts into motion. Keep the image in front of you. You can say you want to get up of the couch and get something to eat. However if you never leave the couch you will stay hungry.

Distance is what you use to measure your efforts. If you can measure your efforts, then we can conclude that you are working. If you cannot measure your efforts, then conclude that you need to reevaluate your efforts. To get the full benefit from your evaluation, you will need to be very honest with yourself. So to gain all you can through the Sciences of Attraction, make sure to have a mind that is willing to do what is needed to get the results that you desire.

Close your eyes and visualize what you want in your marriage. Are you seeing yourself moving  in the manner that will bring you success? Are you seeing your marriage successful and accomplishing what is required of you to bring the desired results into reality?  Do you see you and your spouse kissing each other before you go to bed? Ok then you cannot just roll over and go to sleep without an attempt. Act on the thought.

A man once told me that if I find him moving a desk and it only had moved a quarter of an inch, bottom line is that I can see and measure the work.There must be physical movement towards your goal in a successful mental attitude. A mental workout is just as or more strenuous than the physical. It takes real concentration to keep a positive attitude.

This mental attitude can be maintained easily with practice. If you are genuine about your desire, which in this case is your relationship. It will become easier with practice. After a while, a positive attitude will come to you easily and effortlessly. Remember your passion.

When results are what you are looking. There must be a way to evaluate your progress. After you decide to stay and work” things out. What exactly do you do? make a honest assesment of the marriage? Find the problem not the symptom. Remember being out of gas is the problem, stuck on the side of the road is the symptom.

When looking for what needs to be repaired. Start with you first. This does not mean blame needs to be placed; all it does is point out the obvious. Make an honest assessment of the repairs.

Work has to apart of any healthy marriage. Just know that it only takes one person to start the process. See your marriage healed and healthy and work in the truth that you create. Your attitude is key.

As you move towards your goal, continue to evaluate your efforts, seeking to improve. The greater you are at performing your efforts with precision. The faster you will see the fruits of your thinking. Also, take on the gratitude attitude about your forward progress towards your goals. Be always thankful for your progress.

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