The Party Pooper

Who is the Party Pooper? We will show you how to spot it. We all have one. It will diminish the way you think about your marriage. You must always be on the alert in identifying this voice. You can hear it. Trying right now to convince you, they do not exist.

Can you hear the voice? It works a little like a ventriloquist. Are you surprised to hear that the voice sounds exactly like you! Say hello to your very own personally Party Pooper! This voice comes with everything you that you want to forget and especially the things you need to forget. The Voice is as smart as you are, has all your same memories that you have the same joys, disappoints, and hurts too.

The Party Pooper is always there to remind you of all the reasons that you should give up or that it is way to much work. He or she is always there to tell you that you have done enough. How long have you been taking instruction from this diminishing voice? Tell the pooper to sit down and behave.

There are many names to identify this troublemaker. The Devil within, Satan, the Deceptive Intelligence, Engrams. Always active in trying to ruin the good in your marriage and your life all together. Trying to steal any chance of increase of happiness, love, health, peace, prosperity, and enjoyment. The voice never lets you take any emotional risk.

Just to be sure, you understand that we are not talking about anything that is outside of yourself, just so we are clear. Be aware of the VOICE it is the Party Pooper in action. If you need an excuse, they will provide one.

You have to practice listening for it. Remember this is your own intelligence. The Party Pooper is just as intelligent as you are and will give just enough facts and then twist it with fear, pain, or spite. You will have memories pop up out of nowhere. Just when you are ready to let the argument go, the Pooper is right there to remind you of the reason you were mad in the first place. Or to speculate on what could happen and the what if syndrome.

The most powerful tool the Party Pooper uses is speculation. This fella losses no time in taking hold of your imagination and causing all sorts of trouble in our relationships. We waste precious time with this practice. The majority of people that get married, gets married out of love for one another. However the majority of marriages end up in divorce. The Party Pooper plays a huge part in these cases.

This voice within self tells you to stop caring for the person, or persons that we love. This voice will try to make you justify revengeful actions or words. The further we continuing down this road of thought, farther down the road we walk. “No one falls out of love, they walk out.”

Start to identify the diminishing voice and put a leash on it. This does not mean you will not feel emotion nor are we suggesting that emotion should be removed. We have to have control over them. Love is an emotion do not shut it off.